Laura Ingraham had a segment this morning on an article in the Washington Post about the popularity of teen blogging and some of the dangers inherent in the activity. It was a fairly balanced article and it focused on some of the dangers and abuses of the technology. Apparently some teens are posting personal details and in some cases even provocative or pornographic material on their blogs. What was surprising in the article were some quotes by parents who didn't feel they had a right to monitor their child's use of the internet!!
Blogging can be a safe activity and even a fun one for your teenager. But...you need to monitor their use and help protect them from adult predators that scan teen blogs and protect them from exposure to the seedier side of the internet. My daughter loves to blog, but she does it under our monitoring and protection. Some basic rules that I recommend if your teen wants to blog:
1) No secret email or blogging. Use monitoring software to check the family usage. We have access to their blogs and email accounts. Use antivirus and security software, including a firewall if you have broad-band access. The better internet security software allows you to block internet sites by content, and you can even select sites that you don't want your child to see. One package that I highly recommend is "BSafe Online". It's affordable and easy to install and use. Some Internet Service Providers (Cox, AOL, Earthlink, etc.) offer free security software or services. Take advantage of those if you can't afford a stand-alone package like "BSafe".
2) On public blogs, don't post your real name or any details of where you go to school, or where you live except vaguely geographical (i.e. Southern California, West Coast, etc.). Avoid using anyone's real name, use their blog alias or refer to them obliquely..."a friend", "my brother", etc.
3) Use blogs that allow control over posting comments and allow you to block IP addresses of those who violate the rules of service.
4) Avoid mentioning anything that would cause hurt or embarrassment to others ("golden rule"). Don't discuss incidents or details of your job or workplace, don't use anyone's real name.
These are actually good rules for even adult bloggers to use, and I try to use them diligently. Sometimes I need to go back over posts and edit out names of family members, again to protect them from predators. I've been blogging for about 2 years now, and generally it's been a good experience.
On Laura Ingraham, some parents calling in said their solution to the problems of the internet was to keep their children off web access, no email, and some even don't allow cell-phones and texting. Our approach is to teach our children to use technology and the internet responsibly and safely, and spend some effort to help them do so safely. It's better to learn to use a tool correctly and safely rather than hiding the tool from your children.